Valentine’s day may be the perfect opportunity to get engaged. It’s also the perfect opportunity to rethink, reshape, and redefine the meaning of marriage for the 21st century.
In The New I Do: Reshaping Marriage for Skeptics, Realists, and Rebels, therapist Susan Pease Gadoua and journalist Vicki Larson examine the institution of marriage and outline alternative models for matrimony, including a “parenting marriage,” a “comfort” or “safety marriage,” a “living alone together marriage,” in which partners live in separate homes, and more. In the book, Gadoua and Larson explore the pros and cons of each model, while providing real-life examples and pointing to additional resources for interested couples.
If you’re ready to think outside the marital box, try this handy flowchart to help you identify the marriage model that’s right for you.
The New I Do ebook is on sale for US $1.99 from February 5th, 2015, through March 15th, 2015, at participating ebook retailers.